FAQ
What is the best sex toy for a beginner?
For most people, a small rechargeable bullet or mini wand. They're easy to hold, simple to control and work for solo or partnered play. If you have a penis, an open-ended stroker is the equivalent starting point. The best first toy is one that matches your curiosity right now, not the most powerful one on the shelf.
What material should my first toy be made of?
Look for silicone, ABS plastic, glass or stainless steel. These are non-porous, so they're easy to clean thoroughly. Avoid toys with a strong chemical smell or that feel sticky. Every product description lists its material, so check before you buy.
Do I need lube with my first toy?
Almost always, yes. Lube makes everything more comfortable and helps toys glide instead of drag. A water-based lube is the safe default because it works with every toy material. Silicone lube can damage some silicone toys, so save it for glass, steel or plastic.
How do I clean a sex toy?
Wash it before first use and after every use with warm water and a mild unscented soap or a toy cleaner, then let it air-dry. Check whether your toy is waterproof or only splash-proof before rinsing. Always follow the manufacturer's care instructions.
Will a sex toy replace my partner?
No. Toys add sensation; they don't replace connection. Many couples find a toy actually makes it easier to talk about what they like. Try introducing it as something you explore together, not a fix for something that's missing.
How discreet is my order?
Every Couples Co. order ships in discreet packaging to the USA, Canada and worldwide. See our shipping policy for delivery details.
Are these toys safe for everyone?
Our products are intended for adults 18 and over. If you're pregnant, have a medical condition, or have had recent surgery, check with your healthcare provider before using any intimate product. Stop if anything causes pain or numbness.