The Best LGBTQ+ Sex Toys Collections - Pleasure for Every Body! Order Online!

Couples Co. believes that pleasure is for everyone - and our LGBTQ+ collection exists to reflect that with something more substantial than a token gesture. Here you'll find strap-ons and pegging accessories for lesbian and queer couples, prostate massagers and anal toys for gay and bisexual men, gender-affirming toys for trans and non-binary people, and couples products designed without anatomical assumptions. We try to use inclusive language throughout our site, and this collection brings together the products that most directly speak to LGBTQ+ intimacy and exploration.

Gender-Affirming Sex Toys - A Buying Guide

Gender-affirming sex toys are designed to work with and affirm the body you have, rather than making assumptions about anatomy. For trans women and non-binary people, this often means toys focused on external stimulation, prostate play, or products that don't require a specific anatomy to be pleasurable. For trans men and non-binary people with a vulva, many of the same toys as everyone else work well - alongside packing products and strap-on systems designed with a more masc aesthetic. We try to describe all toys in terms of sensation and use rather than gendered assumptions.

Strap-Ons, Packers & Inclusive Pleasure Toys

Strap-on harnesses and dildos are one of the most universally appealing categories for LGBTQ+ shoppers. For lesbian and queer couples, a strap-on opens up penetrative play on equal terms. For trans men, a packing dildo worn daily can reduce gender dysphoria and provide a more affirming physical experience. Play-oriented packers and two-in-one pack-and-play devices are designed to be comfortable for daily wear and usable for sex. We stock harnesses in adjustable designs that work for a wide range of body shapes, and dildos in non-realistic shapes and colours that move away from the hypermasculine aesthetic of traditional strap-on sets.

A Note on Language and Inclusivity

We know that language in the adult toy industry has historically been careless - defaulting to binary categories, assuming heterosexuality, and using anatomical terms that don't reflect everyone's relationship with their body. We're working to do better: describing toys by what they do and how they feel rather than who they're supposedly 'for', using anatomical terms where necessary but always with awareness that anatomy and gender identity don't always align, and building a collection that serves real people rather than demographic assumptions. If you have feedback on our language or product descriptions, we genuinely want to hear it.